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Communication With All Sides of the Transaction... Please!!! | Real Estate Lender Fails, FSBO Lessons & How to Protect Your Clients

Jun 16, 2026

 

Hey friend đź‘‹

Let’s talk about something that sounds simple… but can completely derail a transaction:

Communication.

Because here’s the truth…

A lot of deals don’t fall apart because of the house.

They fall apart because people stop communicating.

 

🏡 Here's the truth:

 

This transaction should have been straightforward.

Instead?

We had:
→ Multiple extensions
→ Last-minute loan changes
→ Missing updates
→ A lender ghosting everyone involved

And the hardest part?

Nobody could get a clear answer.

 

đźš© The real challenge?

 

No one was on the same page.

The buyer’s agent didn’t have updates.
The attorney didn’t have updates.
The sellers were frustrated.

And as the listing agent?

I was stuck trying to reassure clients without real information.

 

đź’ˇ What this means for you:

 

Real estate is a team sport.

The core team:
→ Agent
→ Lender
→ Attorney/title company

Has to communicate well.

Not perfectly.
Not constantly.

But consistently.

 

💰Now let’s talk about the part people misunderstand…

 

Communication does NOT mean giving away negotiation power.

It means:
→ Sharing updates
→ Meeting deadlines
→ Being transparent about delays
→ Respecting everyone involved in the process

That’s professionalism.

 

📊 One of the most practical takeaways from this episode:

 

Silence creates panic.

Even a simple:
“Hey, underwriting is delayed, but we’re working through it.”

…goes a long way.

People can handle problems.

What they struggle with is feeling left in the dark.

 

⚖️ A better way to frame your role:

 

You do not have to be aggressive to advocate well.

Some of the best transactions happen when:
→ Both sides communicate clearly
→ Everyone respects each other
→ The goal stays the same: get to the closing table well

You can compete and still work together professionally.

 

🎯 Real talk:

 

When communication breaks down…

Everyone loses confidence:
→ Clients
→ Agents
→ Attorneys
→ Even the transaction itself

That’s why communication matters so much.

🎧 Watch or Listen to Closing Chapters Podcast Episode 36:

S2 E36: Communication With All Sides of the Transaction... Ple...

What happens when a lender stops communicating, the closing date keeps shifting, and your sellers are watching their next chapter get del...

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Keep doing the hard work. Your knowledge goes a long way! đź¤Ť

~Brittney

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