Communication With All Sides of the Transaction... Please!!! | Real Estate Lender Fails, FSBO Lessons & How to Protect Your Clients
Hey friend đź‘‹
Let’s talk about something that sounds simple… but can completely derail a transaction:
Communication.
Because here’s the truth…
A lot of deals don’t fall apart because of the house.
They fall apart because people stop communicating.
🏡 Here's the truth:
This transaction should have been straightforward.
Instead?
We had:
→ Multiple extensions
→ Last-minute loan changes
→ Missing updates
→ A lender ghosting everyone involved
And the hardest part?
Nobody could get a clear answer.
đźš© The real challenge?
No one was on the same page.
The buyer’s agent didn’t have updates.
The attorney didn’t have updates.
The sellers were frustrated.
And as the listing agent?
I was stuck trying to reassure clients without real information.
đź’ˇ What this means for you:
Real estate is a team sport.
The core team:
→ Agent
→ Lender
→ Attorney/title company
Has to communicate well.
Not perfectly.
Not constantly.
But consistently.
💰Now let’s talk about the part people misunderstand…
Communication does NOT mean giving away negotiation power.
It means:
→ Sharing updates
→ Meeting deadlines
→ Being transparent about delays
→ Respecting everyone involved in the process
That’s professionalism.
📊 One of the most practical takeaways from this episode:
Silence creates panic.
Even a simple:
“Hey, underwriting is delayed, but we’re working through it.”
…goes a long way.
People can handle problems.
What they struggle with is feeling left in the dark.
⚖️ A better way to frame your role:
You do not have to be aggressive to advocate well.
Some of the best transactions happen when:
→ Both sides communicate clearly
→ Everyone respects each other
→ The goal stays the same: get to the closing table well
You can compete and still work together professionally.
🎯 Real talk:
When communication breaks down…
Everyone loses confidence:
→ Clients
→ Agents
→ Attorneys
→ Even the transaction itself
That’s why communication matters so much.
🎧 Watch or Listen to Closing Chapters Podcast Episode 36:
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Keep doing the hard work. Your knowledge goes a long way! 🤍
~Brittney


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